Bullying:
What Are the Warning Signs?

Bullying has become a major source of concern for many these days. There is a misconception that it only happens among children. While it is most commonly reported with children and teens, these behaviors can extend into adulthood. Knowing the warning signs can make a huge difference and allow you to intervene sooner rather than later. Counseling can also make a huge difference whether your child is the one being bullied or bullying others. 

What Are Warning Signs for Bullying? 

Knowing the signs of bullying can help you to intervene sooner rather than later. The sooner you address bullying, the better the outcome can be. 

Stopbullying.gov outlines the following warning signs that your child may be being bullied: 

  • Unexplained injuries
  • Destroyed or lost personal belongings such as clothing, books, jewelry, electronics etc. 
  • Frequent illnesses or pains, feeling sick or even faking illnesses
  • Changes in eating habits or coming home hungry because they were unable to eat lunch
  • Nightmares
  • Difficulty sleeping
  • Grades suddenly declining or loss of interest in school 
  • Avoidance of social situations
  • Sudden loss of friends
  • Decreased self-esteem
  • Running away from home or self-injurious behaviors 

Stopbullying.com also outlines signs that a child may be bullying others. This is also an important thing to look out for as a parent or guardian. 

Signs that a child may be bullying others can include; 

  • Frequently getting into fights
  • Befriending those that bully others
  • Aggressive behaviors
  • Unexplained new belongings
  • Difficulty taking accountability
  • Frequently blaming others
  • Preoccupation with their reputation or popularity
  • Extremely competitive behaviors 

What Can Be Done About Bullying? 

Ignoring bullying will not make it better or make it go away. Intervention is important. If the bullying is occurring at school it can be helpful to involve the school and look for ways to find resolution. If it is amongst a club or sports team, going to coaches or moderators can also be beneficial. While this may help to address the behaviors and make them stop, it may not help with healing. 

Finding a skilled, licensed therapist can help you and your child to process the impacts of bullying and find ways to move forward. Carolina Counseling Services in Southern Pines, NC contracts with skilled providers who can help. Online counseling sessions are also available, making getting the help you deserve easier than ever before. Call today to get started!