Parenting a child who has grown to have defiant behaviors or that has been diagnosed with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) can be a challenging experience. Oppositional Defiant Disorder has been defined as a frequent and consistent expression of anger, irritability, hostility, disagreement, defiance, and vindictiveness towards authority figures such as parents, teachers, and other elders.

As children grow, they may continue behaving in a defiant manner towards authority figures, having difficulty complying with rules or accepting consequences. Teens with symptoms of ODD may find themselves wanting to be in control, thus when they are challenged, they may act out, sometimes even violently. Oppositional Defiant Disorder can be a challenging diagnosis that may seem to test you and your family at every turn.

Understanding ODD in Teens

It can be considered “normal” for children and young adults to be oppositional from time to time. They also get tired, stressed, or feel upset just like adults. It doesn’t mean that your teenager has ODD if they appear to be uncooperative or ignore your requests from time to time. However, if you find yourself wondering why your teenager fights so hard against your authority, as if complying with your rules is equal to suffocation, their behavior may be something more.

It is possible that this is exactly how your child feels. As a parent, you may try to identify what triggers your child’s defiance. Your child’s personality can oftentimes play a role, and they may find it difficult to comply with rules and authority. Being told “no” too often or excessively restrictive rules can certainly contribute to the development of defiant behavior, as can lead to misunderstandings and misperceptions. Other factors such as depression, anxiety, and other diagnoses may have something to do with your child’s oppositional behaviors.

As you identify the factors that contribute to your child’s behavior you may be able to begin to support healthy change. Unfortunately, it is likely that your child will not always be able to avoid triggers out there in the world. As a parent, you may be wondering how you can best support and prepare your child to manage their feelings and experiences more effectively.

Seeking Long-Term Help

ODD can be a very difficult challenge for a parent to face, though difficult, help is available, and recovery is possible. When your teen’s behavior has escalated from occasional defiance to chronic disrespect, aggressive and even harmful behavior, it may be time to seek treatment with a professional therapist.

Turn to Carolina Counseling Services – Southern Pines, NC. CCS contracts with licensed, independently contracted counselors that have the experience and the training needed to provide appropriate treatments and interventions. Call CCS – Southern Pines, NC today to request your first appointment.